Hi Bets, The news of your D7's TA is truely a tragic loss. In rememberance, one option might be to have a memorial printed in the paper, simply stating that she will be missed but not forgotten for all in the area to see.
Well I'm a little late with this, but I didn't get a chance to respond on the previous thread before it was locked out ...
Holy Smokes! ... since when is be neighborly a passive aggressive act!! I do have my neighor's lawn everytime I mow. Granted he has been deceased for the last year, but before then, when he would mow, he would continue into my adjecent yard right up to my house. The next time if I got out there first I would mow right up to his house. It does seem the sense of community is an endangered means when lending a hand is considered offensive.
... and to end this post of a sweet/positve note, which chocolate? if its sweet ... its all goooood!