Well guys, my over worked brain got to me. The fact that she tried to hide her laptop has been eating at me ever since. I broke one of db’s cardinal rules about snooping. And I’m not happy I did. Ugh. I found the name of the guy she dated/lived with before we met.
In naming our kids, I chose the first name and she chose the middle. Just so happens that middle names match. Not a fan of coincidences, but this is one hell of one. Should let it go or ask her?