Postcards from the Island of Misfit Toys ...

[BL42]

bttrfly,

you only need one, BL.

There are other guys I've chatted with but I'm really not interested in moving forward with most of them.

Very true, but might you miss a good one who might actually present better in person than OLD messaging? After you initially filter of course. Just a thought.

I'm again giving thought to an annulment.

I'm surprised to hear that. Weren't you on a another poster's thread awhile back (maybe Drh2001 or ScottBs?), talking about how difficult the annulment process is and not to pursue it? Or perhaps I'm thinking of someone else. Anyway...good for you. Hope it brings you more closure/peace if you decide to pursue it further.

I do not recognize either of those posters. I do recall talking about annulment, the difficulty and expense of the process and being asked for and sending people to the articles which I found helpful.

I had the wrong poster in regards to the annulment process. There was a whole discussion on it a year ago in (ScottB's Annulment Discussion) but it was wayfarer who weighed in against it saying he was wasting his time (ScottB Annulment Discussion - Wayfarer Post #2930749), not you.