Thanks Don. Dont yell at the iPad, it is just a tool.. The only other thing she beside going slow was " Have patience with me". After two crappy relationships. Physical Abuse is just wrong, and cant be easily let go.. I will pay attention to what she does. If she wants to be frank with me, she should. I think she and I have pretty much hashed that out just in basic conversation. If she isnt interested in me, she has a strange way of telling to me to go away. She should just do it , if that is the case.. She either wants to be a friend or nothing at all is my take. But, it needs to be spoken straight up. Spending time with the opposite sex is maybe something she really likes to fell more a woman, alive etc, that her girlfriends dont give her. Little Selfish at my expense? Pure speculation. Now, I will say, women sometimes dont get their message across to where a man truly understand it.. We may not be able to read minds, but we do get/understand pointed questions and answers. I need to be frank when I get back and just ask straight up, friends? Or am I something you want to keep around for future use? Being funny with that last one.