Sooo I arrived here back in 2008. I have studied these forums and other personal growth material the whole time you have been with your W. Is that crazy?
Jack Sparrow -Commandeer. We’re gonna commandeer that ship. Nautical term. One question about your business, boy. There’s no use going. This girl.. How far are you willing to go to save her? -I’d die for her. -Oh, good. No worries then.
The things that work are counter intuitive. How far are you willing to go? Are you willing to set her free and let her completely go? Actually support her decision?
She has lost her attraction for you. Every interaction with her is a chance to be either more or less attractive. She thinks she knows you. You have an opportunity to make personal growth improvements that will contradict her "model" she has of you in her mind. Focus on you and your positive changes.
One of the best DBers, Coach, gave stellar advise. Spend some time reading all the quotes linked here: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2943653 Get familiar with the thought processes of him and the other posters quoted. You should be able to tell me the difference between RobX approach and Gucci loafers or LH19 etc.
Just know that you and your kids will be ok no matter what path your W chooses. Everything happens for a reason.
Do not let fear control you. Do not be boring.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
