Honestly I have considered ending things but then I look at my kids. I look at all the wonderful things about my husband and I simply can't. For all the bad there's a mountain of good. If there's any way at all these we can regain the love we had and be happy, I need to give it a shot. Or I'll regret it forever.
Rejoice, I'm 100% for trying to save things. However, it is impossible to save things with a spouse that is in an active affair. Especially when that spouse knows without a doubt that they can come back at anytime and be taken back, no questions asked. Start moving forward with your own life and he might, just might, feel that he is really losing you. And that might trigger him questioning what he is doing.
But if he does end up coming back I hope you'll have a three strikes you're out rule. Divorce is tough on kids. But you know what's worse for them? Showing them that a spouse can treat you anyway they want with no consequences. Would you want your daughter to put up with what you are willing too? Just another thing to consider.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
