adding extraneous people never helps a situation. better to man / woman up and face the real issues between spouses and deal with them directly.

but what do I know? I'm divorced after a 20+ year marriage and posting in the surviving section of a divorce busting website.

thank God this section is here for those of us trying to re-build and face the challenges of life post D.

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver