What a whirlwind of a day. I've been doing quite well with detachment, walking every day and managing to eat a little. I had a talk with H today & yet again, I realise that I'm not following the DB rules. I just seem to get sucked in so quickly. I found myself mildly flirting and then giving him reassurances. I thought (very wrongly) that this was a sign that he was reconnecting with me. I went for a 7 Mile walk feeling positive & came back to him going out. When he'd gone D(16) said he had talked to her & basically admitted that he had been with OW on Friday, where they had gone (possibly with her 2 children) to a local place of scenery, on Saturday night he went to a music gig with her and today he is round at her’s as we speak. I have absolutely no words! He is still saying he is looking for a flat and won't take advantage whilst he is living with us but it's like he is deliberately going out of his way to be hurtful. I realise I've got a long way to go with the DB, it felt so nice though to have a bit of our old relationship back. On the positive side, when I do DB, it seems to be effective. He is constantly asking where I'm going and who I am with. I'm keeping up the air of mystery & trying to be as unavailable as I can.
