Thank you for your thoughtful advice, D. I don't need the items immediately and sending them would cost a lot less than buying new replacements. And they are very much mine. H has been good about giving me my stuff and sending money, so it's unlikely that he will stir up trouble if I were to ask. That said, because I've been cycling, I don't really want to talk to him right now. So I'll wait. I'll probably have more things to add to the list as I settle in more, anyway.
It's so helpful to be reminded that deciding not to take any action is also a kind of action.
