that is a heck of a lot to lay on a kid.

her happiness is her responsibility, not yours, not an AP's, not anyone else's.

Originally Posted by Rockon
I plan to continue to be there for D and have an open heart to support. Don’t plan to get in the way of or take responsibility for their relationship.

^^^ That's perfect. You do you and be the lighthouse for your kids. They'll need that.

I'm sorry Rock.

Nothing about this is easy.

But, in time, it will hurt less.

xoxoxo

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver