the ex-SEAL should have been disqualified just on that basis. I worked in the Navy hospital here during medical school, and trust me, Navy SEALs are mostly really crazy.
I think the Jocko Willink break up advice videos are pretty on point, align with DB'ing principles, and are a good reinforcement. However at one point he says "Navy Seals have a pretty high divorce rate...like 90%". Kind of funny, but also maybe true.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21