Ginger1,
Originally Posted by Ginger1
Still have not joined any apps and I have no plans to. I’ve been off of them for months ( with the exception of FB dating which is just there).
Just curious...how long has it been since you used them?

Originally Posted by Ginger1
I was reading BL’s GAL this week. And it confirmed what i have been feeling lately. I read BL’s every day GAL events and I get exhausted. I don’t have the energy.
Forgot to mention I got to open skate twice over the weekend too! Like going to the gym when you don't feel like it but glad you did afterwards, sometimes getting out and just doing the thing gives you more energy for it.

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I have a decent amount of things I could be doing , but none I really want to.
Anything come to mind that you really want to do?

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I just don’t have the energy in my bones.
I was thinking exactly the same thing tonight! Got S8 and D4 to bed and thought "wow I'm beat and my legs are feeling it from going up and down the stairs carrying them and getting things. My parents who help me out and are obviously older than me must really feel it"

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I feel lonely even though my D is there ( lonely for adult company o guess)
I hear you. Totally get the love my kid(s) but lonely for adult interaction too.

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I got invited to that music fest with 2 friends. I’m excited about that, but it’s a lot of money.
Nice! Do it!

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She wants to join ( big bucks!) I got her dad to split it because we don’t pay for any other sports and it is as much as swim when she did it. It’ll be fun to do together.
Glad to hear he's ponying up. God knows he should. And great you two have something to do together.

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Do I want to be a manager forever ? I’ll be rethinking that when I move. Whenever and wherever that is. I still feel like that is hanging in the air.
Where do you think you would move?

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I’m in a slump, that’s for sure. I think it’s weather related so I hope the spring and more time outdoors will help with my energy levels.
It's been unseasonably warm though! Feels more like April than February.

Oh, and Ginger...my son switched out of his green and white PJs after Sunday and put on his orange and blacks ones tonight if you know what I mean ;-)


Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21