You're either being deliberately obtuse BL or completely missing the point.
Maybe we're lost in translation. Not trying to be obtuse. The point being the average mid-60s person is not all that interested in a relationship unless the other person has inspirational beauty? All I'm saying is that seems a bit lonely - certainly a high standard making it harder for people who do want a relationship to find one - but maybe I just haven't embraced that approach yet and I'll thinking differently in 20 years.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
