Postcards from the Island of Misfit Toys ...

[bttrfly]

LH you've said here many times over the years that you really don't like my exh, so from your perspective I'm sure you'd think just about anyone would treat me better

Think that was his point behind with LH's promise lol

perhaps.
perhaps not.

Although in all fairness, I have to say the most romantic date I've ever been on was with him on our 19th wedding anniversary. That is a cherished memory, untarnished by anything, including his most monstrous post BD behavior. A guy's gonna have to go far to beat that date.

Wonder if his personality that leant to making such a romantic date led him to being a cheater, or if they're completely unrelated. Just a thought...

keep thinking.
and the answer is NO.

Regarding frosting - not all frosting is tasty. It's got to be worthwhile to take in those extra calories.

Fondant makes for some incredible-looking cakes, but doesn't taste all that well. If we can apply that analogy to OLD.

perhaps.
perhaps not.

had a conversation yesterday with my cousin nearest in age to me --- he's now mid-60s. He's always loved the ladies, and has the charming personality to be successful with pretty much any woman he wanted. Imagine my surprise when he said at this point he's not all that interested - she's got to be beautiful to really inspire him because he's got a lot more interesting things he'd rather spend his time on.

AND! he said that is par for the course for most people he's talked to who are his age.

Something for all of us to look forward to???

So have a kid or two, get divorced, then close off and live alone in the later years? Doesn't sound great.

You're either being deliberately obtuse BL or completely missing the point.