You came here and made decisions to save your marriage. To believe in the sanctity of marriage. To take divorce busting steps. To become the best verison of yourself. And so on.
This is a Divorce Busting forum, and divorce busting efforts towards saving/renewing your marriage/relationship, not promoting steps to end it. You filing will guarantee you get divorced.
Utimatiums and deadlines are utilized in the “after the last-resort technique”. When everything else has been utilized and one’s spouse will not turn around. It is the the very last ditch effort, the trying everything you could. In my opinion, you and your situation are not there.
Remember this is a marathon, not a sprint.
You have the gift of time, use it wisely.
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Last edited by DnJ; 02/15/2303:21 PM.
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.