LH you've said here many times over the years that you really don't like my exh, so from your perspective I'm sure you'd think just about anyone would treat me better
... and you're right - he was miserable to live with at times, the last two years especially, and easy to track against his rising TSH levels.
Although in all fairness, I have to say the most romantic date I've ever been on was with him on our 19th wedding anniversary. That is a cherished memory, untarnished by anything, including his most monstrous post BD behavior. A guy's gonna have to go far to beat that date.
Kml in reading your posts over the years I've always had the impression that you were well and truly done and ready for your exh to go at the time of your D. I'm sure that made it much easier for you to date quickly. We all know that was not my experience.
I'm still treating online as a social experiment. I'm still taking extreme care in vetting potentials. Since I don't really care all that much one way or the I can afford to be picky, and if a guy I'm interested in doesn't return the interest, truly no harm, no foul.
Regarding frosting - not all frosting is tasty. It's got to be worthwhile to take in those extra calories.
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver
