Today marks the 3rd anniversary of Bomb Day. Thought it was an appropriate day to start a new thread.
It's crazy to think it's been 3 years since everything blew up, and that it's been nearly half of son's and life the majority of my daughter's life going back and forth between dad and mom's house. S7 seems fine. D4 has major meltdowns at times, but could be her age/personality. I'm fortunate they're healthy and mostly happy and I see them almost daily despite the split because of coaching S7's sports and my work schedule. I've had a lot of fun with them in the last few years as a single dad and made a ton of good memories and I know they love me deeply (right back at them!).
I had a crazy week of GAL planned last week. Played adult soccer Monday night, but injured my left thumb pretty badly so had to cancel on Sim Golf Tues and Weds, but did make it to bowling Thursday, and then went out with friends for dinner & drinks Friday and Saturday.
Got to watch the Super Bowl with the kids Sunday. Disappointing result, but we had fun. S7 & D4 colored their hair green and got dressed up in our team's gear, and S7 stayed up till the end which is pretty late for him.
For Valentine's Day yesterday I got them a bunch of balloons, flowers, decorations with streamers and hearts, and chocolate glazed donuts for breakfast. We had a great morning. D4 gave me a heart sticker for my shirt with one big heart and a little heart and then put another little heart on top and said "it's daddy, S7 and D4 all snuggzing together!". Still haven't taken it off...not sure I can wash the shirt now :-)
Other than that nothing major to report. Just figured I'd mark the timeline with a new thread...
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21