Newbie and needing help please

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He has agreed to pay child maintenance.

Wow, what a great guy (eye roll). It doesn't matter at all what he agreed to or not there...it is the law. So make sure you understand it and receive what you're entitled to. Have you consulted an L?

I've arranged some IC through work and this will start next week.

Good! My guess is that'll be very helpful.

He lied again last night and was with OW all night.

Typical.

I was calm and he did admit to the affair.

Way to stay calm. I'm surprised he admitted the affair...many don't even in the face of overwhelming evidence.

Said he felt so guilty and hadn't wanted to hurt me. I said he had hurt me and that I couldn't live with him under the same roof whilst he is sleeping with her one night and here the next. He has agreed to move out.

None of this is easy, but hopefully him moving out will give you some space and peace. IHS is incredibly difficult.

He's also agreed not to stay overnight or lie about shifts till he goes.

You can't trust a word he says. He's a deceitful cheating and now he's agreed to not lie about overnights or shifts? Please. Do not trust anything he says to you.