I am still catching up on all that has happened with my friends on here. But I do think that what Gerda suggested above is worth contemplating. I remember reading some of the recon stories (May22, Wayfarer) and they are hard but possible. It sounds like coming back together can be just as confusing as the MLC was. Just keep your open mind and heart and watch for the green signs while still protecting your heart. If he's serious, he will be patient and continue to move towards you. You've learned a lot. Hopefully, he has too. You will be okay either way. Hugs to you!
El
Me 52, H 56 T10 M7, 2nd MR for both 2 Step Sons (19 and 21) BD: Fall 2020 D finalized: July 2022 XH Married AP soon after D day.
