My understanding is W is still sleeping with OM. W is pursing OM and not you. Correct me if I am wrong.

You are well on your way to being friend zoned. Not sure why you believe it is good to be supplicating, but it is your life.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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