Originally Posted by LH19
D I’m a big believer in 50/50 custody unless a parent is deemed unfit.
Originally Posted by BL4
Things that were ridiculous to normal responsible parents, but wouldn't merit any court judgement against 50/50 (they seem to have more pressing concerns with drug and physical abuse, unfortunately).
This does make sense. It’s tough to accept on days when she does crap like this. I’ll spend more time thinking it through. I just hope she decides to parent again at some point. She volunteered to raise this child. It’s a complete disservice to D5 for her to not be the best parent possible. MLC is a mess.

Originally Posted by BL42
Lessons learned. She's taught you she can't be depended on even for child care - act accordingly moving forward.
Yup. I checked in with D18 this morning to make sure D5 was doing okay. W got home around 8am and went straight to bed. W couldn’t even be depended on once she got home. I won’t put D5 or D18 in that position again.

Last edited by DnJ; 02/12/23 07:52 PM. Reason: Corrected quote syntax.

M:39 W:39
T:22 M:18
S:19 D:18 D:5
BD:7/2022