Brave Little Gerda Passes Through the Door

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Gerda,

Judge Two (who made me long for Judge One) ignored the first one so he filed another.

How does a judge ignore a motion? Don't they have to rule on it?

This last one he filed about a month before our trial, asking judge to put me in jail.

Put you in jail on what grounds?

I've been without child support since H filed in 2018 and obviously had no help before then.

That's coming up on 5 years. Does your L think you'll get back pay?

I think H owes his lawyer about 200K that could have been used for my kids' college education. It's a burnt out wasteland.

$200K? Is that even possible? Seems absurd.

I know intellectually that H can't do anything to me. He already did everything.

Good! You've already been through the worst of it, so he no longer has power over you. There's nothing left to threaten with.

Either way, I have to get child support, it's the law!

Right. No getting around that.

This is a third judge (referee), and apparently he is much more fair than Judge One and Two. And since it's a trial, the judge will have to actually read all our papers and review the finances and DETERMINE CHILD SUPPORT, all things that I have never had from a judge before.

Glad you have a new more reasonable judge.

(Also he is a man, and I am convinced my two women judges are the most brutal to women, trying to show they don't favor them.)

Interesting. Wonder if you're on to something there.

I am dreading being cross examined for four days by that evil evil lawyer of H. I am dreading having to hear his voice.

Sounds like a royal pain, but don't let it hurt you.

Hang in there Gerda. "This too shall pass"