An affair is the futile attempt to fix themselves. To try to find happiness. Not realizing healing and happy come from within.
110%… you’re a wise man DNJ!!!
The affair is an attempt to fix.
The victim story is because they then want their train wreck to be someone else’s fault.
I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again … the BIGGEST problem with modern society is 90% of people refuse to own their behaviour. Everyone wants to blame, be a victim and get all their friends telling them what they’re doing is okay.
