If you TRULY have zero expectations, that's one thing. But is it possible you're not being 100% honest with yourself there?
W might be very happy being social and having "family time" with the kids, while not be interested in you as her H and pursing OM. It's called cake eating. Are you OK with that?
Since you joined the vets here have been recommending less interaction with her but you always seem to have a reason why not to take that approach. Ultimately it's your life and your decision.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
