You’ve said several times to the board in your last few posts that you have no expectations - which is good. I suspect you’re doing that so that nagging people like me don’t come along and warn you to be careful blah blah blah 🤣
If it’s what you’ve come up with during IC and you can keep a lid on everything, then go and have a great time 👍
One thing I will offer… MWD advocates NOT DOING what hasn’t worked in the past, and KEEP DOING things which are helping.
To that end, I’d say the last few weeks when you have been busy, having fun and not keen to spend much time with or talk to her (as we’ve been telling you since day 1) … it’s paying dividends. That’s why she is peering back in and wanting to spend time with you.
So always keep that on your mind - being available pushes her away, you being unavailable/busy draws her closer. For example, if you share a nice dinner and then she asks to go for a walk, tell her you need an early night. Or tell her you want to play a board game with one of your kids.
No matter how the weekend goes (good, bad or ugly), when you get back Monday morning, it’s straight back to radio silence and GAL.
