NYE isn't a date is it? I am thinking dates are nights with her alone, not with other company. So, this should be technically 4th time. And she contacted me to go over this weekend, Sat. Does that make more sense? So we shall see if I am a friend or more. I am all over the place, and I need to focus more. I do believe I will put into friend category. Just a gut. This was/is my first dip in the dating seriously pool in quite some time.. If none of my posts are jiving, we can disregard them.. Not to be Mr Negative, but I am/have been dealing some issues in life, its not an excuse, but it is what it is.