Hi all, bad day yesterday. Told our closest couple friends about H, who encouraged me to try and get him to talk. I did this last night. He said he still cares about me but the intimate side is shut off. I'm convinced he is seeing another woman & it's killing me because I can't imagine that our family life can compare to the excitement he feels in a new relationship and so keep predicting that the marriage won't survive. He's agreed to stay at home whilst our D(16) takes exams and prom but is in the spare room. Our friend wants to talk to him to check he's ok but I'm frightened of his reaction if he knows I've spoken to them. Any guidance on that? Managing to be neutral some of the time but it's mostly when I've convinced myself there's hope that it'll change. Also really fighting the urge not to check re ow. My mum said I should just let that be because there's nothing I can do & I get that in my head but how can he suddenly change after 26 years of absolutely adoring me? He even said last night that it changed 2 months ago. That's what makes me convinced there's another woman. Sorry ranting now, I just want a glimmer of hope. I come on here but sometimes get sucked into all the marriages that haven't worked and it sometimes feels too painful to read the posts.
