Hi BL42 to answer the question about the night out and sweeping stuff under the carpet. We did talk about it, he came up with a plausible reason and I accepted it then because I had unwavering Trust. I do think this was the start of his potential infidelity though as it all changed from mid Dec. I try to talk but we came from very different upbringing and he struggles to show emotion. When it all blew up, and I was saying it was all my fault, he did say it wasn't as he should probably have told me earlier how he was feeling. I suspect I wouldn't have been open to hearing it at that time because I was so focused on his drinking.
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