Money. Yes, it’s important. And XH is meeting the legal requirements. Such as they are.
However, little G is more important.
Consider her and you. Your relationship. As you say, you were screwed financially. And only financially. Realize that. What you have, is worth more than money, and cannot be bought.
Feeling defeated. Yep. And that will flit. A temporary state.
Deep down, you have a wellspring of uplifting joy and pride and fulfilment with such a daughter in your life. And, truth be told, the hardships you’ve had to live through, make that even more golden.
Little G will never ever forget all you’ve sacrificed and provided for her. She currently doesn’t express nor understand the depth of all that. In time she will.
D
Well said, D! Couldn't agree more.
Ginger your ExH may enjoy his financial situation living in a two income household all these years, but you'll have a deeper relationship with your daughter. His loss.
Originally Posted by Ginger1
Originally Posted by bttrfly
on a happier note - by my calculation today is spa day??!!!! i vote for the hot stone massage xoxo enjoy the pampering!
It was the best day ever! Started with breakfast and mimosas . Went to the spa with hot tubs, sauna and massages. Then for margs and dinner. I went with friend to her dR appt( it’s our doctor friend) she was the last spot, so the 3 of us went for margs and dinner after.
I really needed today. I felt genuinely happy. We have decided we are going to do the spa day every 3 months.
Sounds perfect. Glad you got a much deserved you day.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
