I have asked God to forgive her and bring about his work. I have benefited from much grace and forgiveness and patience from God and others in my life. I have asked Him to help me not stand in a place of judgment as God but for me to follow what He is presenting me with. I am still working on it and actually I am avoiding engagement with her and trying not to say much of anything at this point (24-48 hr rule) and allowing my heart and mind time and space to process and heal.
