So Rock do you have ill will towards your W? If you do ( which you should) and you don’t show it that’s considered manipulation. Look I get why you’re doing what you’re doing act as if etc you are following the DB instructions. It’s exhausting isn’t it? To me if her having a BF doesn’t work for you then you should have zero problem letting her know it.
This is one of the 180's nice guys need to learn.
If you have forgiven W, then great. Most can't forgive that quickly, and they do it wrong anyway and for the wrong reasons. I am still working on it and it's been over 10 years....
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
