Her emotions are hers. Calmly accept them. You can acknowledge them. "You sound frustrated" etc..Everything in the validation thread. During this phase, I would not even verbally share your emotional state with her. Everything is amazing in my life right now is what you should be projecting to her.
Originally Posted by TellMeSo
When would you say it would be good to open? Once she comes trying to discuss it herself?
Once you are deep into piecing. That is way in the future.
The key is getting yourself to that amazing life. Not faking it, but really doing it, without her. Most here go too slow or pretend.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
