Sadly, a lawyer would be a waste of money. It’s pretty simple here in NJ. A lawyer might get me an $50 tops per month: it’s just not worth the lawyer, the headache, the friction.
Her salary doesn’t go towards child support. Living expenses are calculated. So his contribution to his household is split and his bills are hall mine. And with the numbers he gave me, his mortgage is the same as mine, only he pays half.
I simply just got the short end of the stick. I had a bad night last night. I was really upset. Sometimes it just hits me 15 years later how much this has affected my life.
The good thing about today is I have my office to myself. My comanager is off for her birthday and I am thankful I don’t have to hear her talk about herself and recount every story word for word. I was going nuts last Friday. My other office mate, she sweet, I like her as a person, but she is totally burnt out and hates her job, and she complains ALOT lately. She’s off too.
Tomorrow I am off for a spa day with my BFF. I need this so much. I’m not in the best space mentally lately. I think maybe I need some warmth and sunshine in my life
