My therapist, our mutual friends can definitely see that there are way more negative things in her life apart from our situation.
Such as?
It's hard to tell but one can visibly see that she is tired and somewhat depressed. This situation, high stress at work, no hobbies or outside activities. At first only I was the "problem", now she clearly indicates that other things even the weather is irritating her.
Again, sometimes it seems that she just wants to reset her whole life.
