I’m so proud of you for standing up for yourself and little G, but do NOT let this weasel dissuade you from pursuing this. I agree with everyone else who said consult a lawyer. G, I know you are trying to keep any backlash to little G at a minimum here and you don’t want to rock the boat, but sister, it is far beyond time to rock the sh!t out of his happy little boat. He’s tiptoeing through life going on fancy vacations and working a job that affords him plenty of fun things while you work 2 to scrape by and provide for yourself and little G. I don’t know how things work in the land of Yankees, but down here in the south, the “new” wife’s income has NO bearing on anything. I know this from experience because when my XH and I were dealing with his girls’ mother on some things, she specifically asked that her child support be raised to include my income and we were very explicitly explained how my income was completely ignored in all aspects because I had no legal obligation to support the girls. I’m NOT siding with your XH’s w, mind you…just saying her income shouldn’t factor in any which way so he can’t use that.
Hang in there, G, and see a lawyer. Pursue what little G is entitled to!
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids