We warned you about your neighbor lady...creating more of a "friends vibe" not enough "making moves" and too much frequent contact so soon. You're right to back off a bit and see if she pursues.
Smart you're keeping you're open to meeting up with other women - your not dating let alone exclusive with neighbor lady, so see what comes. You'll most likely hear from her again, and if you do don't get caught in a platonic relationship.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
