Her emotions are hers. Calmly accept them. You can acknowledge them. "You sound frustrated" etc..Everything in the validation thread. During this phase, I would not even verbally share your emotional state with her. Everything is amazing in my life right now is what you should be projecting to her.
Thank you, this is gold.. When would you say it would be good to open? Once she comes trying to discuss it herself?
My aim for the next few weeks is to be completely off the radar. Giving her maximum space.