Completely not caring about her would deviate from my core beliefs.
No one said anything about not caring about her.
Originally Posted by TellMeSo
The last time she was mad at me I was completely calm talking back to her. I am just keeping my care and emotions for myself.
Yes. This how to be always when interacting with her.
I Would also focus on not taking blame for her emotions.
Originally Posted by TellMeSo
The last time she was mad at me I was completely calm talking back to her. I am just keeping my care and emotions for myself.
Her emotions are hers. Calmly accept them. You can acknowledge them. "You sound frustrated" etc..Everything in the validation thread. During this phase, I would not even verbally share your emotional state with her. Everything is amazing in my life right now is what you should be projecting to her.
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