8 month old baby and upcoming divorce part 2

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Newborn,

I hope the divorce finalizing will bring you some closure. It's completely normal to have emotions when it goes through officially, and it's actually good to let it process through. I thought I was doing quite well and feeling strong for a few months but when I got the formal news I had a good cry in the bedroom.

Good for you for not responding to his laughing emoji and even better for you to block him on social media - it's better for your detachment and mental health not to have that window.

Have fun in Europe and the medical conference - keep up that GAL.

He would also pay child support but he hasn't paid for anything since the baby was a month old.

What's holding you back from holding him to his obligations? He's moving away from his child; it's fair he help support.

Going to try online dating, the person I went on a date with was super nice but I don't think there was a spark there.

I wouldn't rush into dating if I were you. Or at least don't rush into anything serious. You have a lot to process and healing to do. Make sure you're happy with yourself and your life first, or you may find yourself in a less than ideal situation.

Despite all of this, Overall, I'm feeling so much more hopeful for the future

Good! You're going to do great.