Living With WAW 4

[Ready2Change]

I've got a something I could use some advice on. D18 has an out of state soccer tournament in a few weeks. Airplane tickets are already paid for and I've booked a hotel. A few weeks ago W asked if we were booking together or separate and I said separate..... D18 injured her leg in practice last week and we aren’t sure she will even be able to play. If she can’t play, I’m not going,

My 2 cents:

During my volleyball dad days, The injured girls still went and watched and supported the other girls by cheering on the sidelines. Same if they had bad grades. Bad grades= not play buy still sit on the sideline and support the other girls. I strongly suggest you go no matter what. Have a great time with your daughter and the other parents. Some of the best times we had were drinking with the other parents in the hotel rooms. Don't be boring.


As far as your words "I said separate"...have some resolve on your word and boundaries. You made a decision, it really should change unless you made a mistake and it was the wrong decision. Your gut will tell you if it is the right decision.