We would have been splitting the costs for the hotel/car but that’s a moot point now. I'm not going down that road. Just needed to be talked out of it while my thoughts were starting to veer. So I appreciate it.
I have not talked with W about any of this. She's complained about a few things and mentioned she needs to get a hotel. That’s her problem, not mine.
Is there another way to put it ?
I dunno...
There isn't anything to talk about....
And if she assumes that you are gonna snuggle up and watch cartoons....well, that's on her...
You are giving her exactly what she has asked for...
Which, BTW, is gonna pi$$ her off too....
So, she's jacked up either way...
Would you rather her be upset with you working toward you, or her ??
If you go into that shared room, she is gonna turn the heat up because she is going to assume that you are expecting sex..even if you aren't.
I'm gonna vote for a nice peaceful weekend with you eating M&M's on the vibrating bed, alone, in your SpongeBob PJ's.....
