Very interested in how you approach this and I don’t have advice. So many similarities in my sitch. W is doing/saying similar kinds of sentiments (she sent a text acknowledging and appreciating what I have been doing for our family etc and she has been proposing family activities) but she recently went away on a trip that I assume was with OM and she has been not giving any indication she wants to come back to the M. I am moving in the opposite direction, not engaging, not pursuing, focusing in me and kids and GAL.
