There are many layers to this, but I think this is a good place to start.
Found this quote searching "How a man can gain a woman's respect"
Originally Posted by ReneeWade
Everybody knows men crave respect in an intimate relationship with a woman.
But it’s not always automatic for women to give it. Lately I’ve been investigating the idea that respecting a man is not 100% always a woman’s conscious choice in a relationship.
Here’s why: I feel deep respect for my husband, and it’s not logical. I don’t tell myself to respect him. He earned it by not being willing to be a passive man.
I believe she hit the nail on the head. How can you not be willing to be a passive man when dealing with your wife during this?
For kicks and giggles, how would you respond if she says:
"Rock, I miss you"
How would you guess LH19 would respond?
I bet something like this:
LH19 "Really, how about you show me how much you miss me" with a twinkle in his eye insinuating she do something naughty.
The last thing you want to do is say "I miss you too". complete turn off for her.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712