My wife says she is done

[DW17]

I've been following along and that sounds like a very difficult conversation. My two older kids (18, 19) already know what’s going on so I’ve been able to stay in constant communication with them about it. I’m lucky that D18 is leaving for college next year and S19 barely even talks to W. I know it will affect them, but not nearly as much as if they were your kids’ ages. My youngest just turned 5 and I have no clue how she will process everything. But I feel for you man. Keep being strong for your kids. From my experience, they process a lot more than they let on. And the emotions that are held in will often come out in a more destructive way later on. Good luck and keep posting.