Mach40,

Glad the birthday party went off without any drama and you were able to celebrate with your granddaughter.

On the neighbor lady trust your gut. If you sense her pulling away it's probably real. Keep it light and cool and don't pressure. Just my $0.02.

Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21