^^^ advice given to my exh and me during mediation, by our mediator, the capo di tutti capi of mediators: KNOW WHAT YOU WANT.

You can't know what you want until you truly figure out who you are, in the midst of this crisis.

Figure that out.

The rest will follow.

Last edited by bttrfly; 01/31/23 01:51 PM.
M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver