She asked if I’d like to do some family outdoor activities his month. I replied, “totally, we are doing lots of that.
Originally Posted by LH19
Wrong! Sorry my calendar is full. Close the bakery Rock.
Rock,
What works is completely counter intuitive. It goes against your natural instincts. You will not nice her back. Your statement to her is "being nice".
LH19 statement is gaining respect. You are rejecting her for her infidelity. One of your CORE VALUES has been violated and you are disgusted by her recent choices and behaviors. Not her, her choices and her behavior. You really do not want anything to do with her. She has to feel like she has lost you before you even have a chance of attracting her back.
Do your research into women's "siht tests" and appropriate ways to respond. This one skill alone will change the dynamics between you and your W.
This whole thing is a big "siht test". You want to start passing all her tests.
How would LH19 respond? How about Andrew Tate? LFA? That is how you should respond. No need to be an A-hole.
Another area for research is "frame". A duckduckgo search of" manosphere frame" found these:
From Reddit:"A Practical Guide To Building Frame" “Whose reality are you living in” - yours, or your wife’s?
Ideally, you want a woman to enter your reality. Her genuine (unnegotiated) desire for you hinges upon you covertly establishing this narrative for her.
Create your reality. Do not go into her frame. Stay in yours.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
