I am angry. I voiced my anger (safely and non violently) to her right at BD. I have been processing it in therapy and feeling it acknowledging it and paying attention to it.
We don't now what goes on in your real life other than what you share here. It's good you're in IC and hopeful you are processing that anger there - great place to do so. However, my read of your posts (and I think others would agree) is they don't come across as you being angry yet. They come across more of you trying to be nice and compassionate and hoping through that your WW will come back and if she does it'll be all good because you're kind and there for her and can forgive. I'm betting though your anger has fully surfaced yet. I suspect it will at some point down the road and it's going to really hit you, whether you R or not. Be ready for it.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
