Originally Posted by BL42
Well to be fair I deleted my OLD profiles quite awhile ago, but LH you might be touching on some truth here...I do tend to look for the perfect fit / long term relationship as opposed to opening the aperture and just going on a casual date and having fun for what it is.
Yes! You need to just go on dates because it's going to be awkward. My guess is the woman you are looking for is going to have MANY options so when you find her you don't want to blow it on something stupid. Though everyone is different (G & Dawn) most women want a man who will take charge, set dates and know what they are doing around the lady parts. There is a very fine line between awkward and creepy.
Originally Posted by BL42
And not lying or misrepresenting myself here...6 figure salary, probably top 10% income and net worth, 6 foot even 195lbs and though can't claim a six pack in pretty decent shape overall. Fairly active and athletic. Great career, fantastic father, tight family and quality friends...etc.
I believe you (Don H). Just out of curiosity what's keeping you from the six pack other than about 10 pounds? It's hard to display great dad and career online so your best bet is to try to display fun/funny.

IMO you our so young and should be having tons of fun out there and not worrying about a relationship. That will come in time. Time to get that OLD profile worked out and give it another shot. You can't just go for top 10%ers you need to branch out a bit.

Just out of curiosity who is your doppelganger? I am thinking a young John Cusak.