Well, this is a first, two 10% ers fighting over me! I think I like it ! The bearded man and the one with the Aussie accent….. bring it on boys!!!
Everything you say resonates with me. I am 10 years ahead so I can tell you that you won’t always feel how you do. And I was the same, I got over my ex way faster than I got over another woman in my daughters life. It crushed me and killed me in every way. I was terrified she would think of her as mom. I was so jealous of their holidays spent together as a family, vacations spent together. I almost didn’t let my D go to their wedding because I couldn’t bare it. My friends came together for me that day and distracted me, because I was falling apart.
I can tell you, that D sees me and only me as mom. His wife is another trusted adult that she loves and that loves her, but I am MOM. Honestly, she goes there to see her dad and grandma. If neither around on his weekend, she chooses to stay with me. And I say yes if I don’t have plans.
You are irreplaceable, my friend! You are the one and only DAD
I also have no doubts that you are super hot . And the compliment you gave me ? THANK YOU! Because that is the highest of compliments in my book. I may not be successful by my own standards on the area of dating, but k would rather take the success on parenting and in these circumstances.
By the way, I share a name with the ultimate MILF, stifler’s mom. Only it’s spelled much differently, the first 3 letters are that of my screen name here. Hint hint
